
It's been awhile since I posted a new article, but The Financial Advisor is far from being dead or disabled. Backstage at the site daily answer several e-mails and comments of posts from people seeking some kind of assistance in managing their personal accounts.
Unfortunately, the service has not yet reached the degree of maturity that I wish for this and some people may feel disadvantaged by waiting time in queue for your reply. Simplest questions I can usually process more quickly, as the more complex cases even take up to 1 month so I can respond, which is certainly discouraging for the user.
But on my side, I get discouraged when I see that my effort is not being properly used. To give you an idea, I spend on average 1-2 hours analyzing each case, and some take much longer if they are complex cases, which was a paid consultant worth around $ 100 to $ 300 dollars. What happens is that I often see this initial effort is not lost because I get more response from the person and I'll never find out if the person's situation improved or worsened.
Most often the first answer turns out to be vague and it is never enough to solve the problem. This is normal because we are only in knowing and becoming accustomed to working together. Consultancy work is only successful when it is done in the long term, and user interaction with the consultant takes a character very similar to that of friends. That is, you go to the consultant for advice which you intend to follow, do not expect him to just tell you some words to comfort him and then you keep on insisting on the same mistakes.
Sometimes the advice is a big punch in the head. Hear the truth hurts, especially when the truth says, "so why are you made a mistake." Nobody likes making mistakes, that is fact. But if you're in a bad financial situation is very likely to have committed at least one, usually several. This does not mean you have guilt.
Guilt is a useless feeling, which does not bring any benefit to your financial life. Let's forget this part and concentrate on errors. The errors committed financial management for many reasons: psychological weakness, bad luck, force majeure, improper influence, marketing, social pressure, in short, many factors that would make a book about each one. The error usually comes from one of these contingencies that we are not trained to deal with. The guilt is precisely the mistake we make without knowing, unlike the intent that the error is intentional (correct me if I told the lawyers something stupid). So the guilt is totally unnecessary if we have an ability that is essential to recognize the error behind this guilt and try to fix it as soon as possible.
The financial error is exactly the point basis for the work of the consultant. We work together with the client to discover what he is doing wrong and correct this behavior, never to fall into the same trap. Do not just say to the client: contact the bank manager, ask for a loan X and you will get rid of debt in N months. This does not work!
N / 2 months for this person and she has a debt four times higher, because now "spare" money. This is what happens if we do not work because the base, and currently work as a consultant to mistake it for the work of a psychologist. And it is not uncommon for situations that need the support of these professionals.
Finally, answering the basic question that originated this tópido: "What the financial adviser can do for you?". He can guide you to correct behavior patterns that are undermining their financial health through continued work and in some cases multidisciplinary, so that over time you can grow as an individual and have a heritage worthy of merit when you retire, or even before that!